THE MINDSET EDIT

Quote of the Day

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

– Ralph Waldo Emerson

Take It Off The Pedestal

In our pursuit of manifesting our desires—whether it's landing a dream job, finding a fulfilling relationship, or achieving personal growth—we often fall into the trap of placing these aspirations on a pedestal. We build them up and elevate them to a status of perfection in our minds, creating unrealistic expectations, and attaching our happiness to their attainment.

However, what we fail to recognize is that by doing so, we set ourselves up for disappointment. Whether you believe all your problems will be solved by landing that new job, entering into that perfect relationship, or achieving a huge milestone, placing it on a pedestal creates an unrealistic standard that is nearly impossible to meet. It will never bring us the feelings we think it will, and it will not be that “one” thing that will solve all your problems.

When reality inevitably fails to meet our exaggerated expectations, we're left feeling disillusioned and unsatisfied. It's a cycle that repeats itself, hindering our ability to create the things we desire.

That's why it's crucial to take a step back and approach these aspirations from a place of neutrality. By doing so, we allow ourselves to see the good and the bad in advance, without attaching undue significance to either. This balanced perspective enables us to appreciate the reality of the situation, rather than being blindsided by our own unrealistic expectations.

We shift from a mindset of desperate neediness to one of detached confidence. Instead of fixating on a specific outcome, we open ourselves to the infinite possibilities of the universe. Detaching from expectations doesn't mean giving up on our desires; rather, it's about releasing the grip of attachment to it looking and being a certain way. When we let go of the need for things to unfold exactly as we envision, we create space for serendipity and synchronicity to guide us towards our goals.

Start to release the need to control every aspect of our lives, follow your feelings and your intuition, and take action from a place of inspiration and alignment.

Love,

Stephanie

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This is for you if….

• You know deep down that you're meant for more and are ready to step into your full potential.

• You feel like there are blocks holding you back, but you're struggling to uncover and overcome them on your own

• You've been trying to change your mindset and break free from old patterns, but you keep finding yourself stuck in the same cycles.

• You're committed to doing the inner work necessary to shift your perspective.

• You're ready to release limiting beliefs, self-doubt, and patterns of scarcity that have been holding you back.

• You're seeking personalized guidance, support, and accountability to accelerate your journey toward success and fulfillment.

• You're deeply immersed in the wellness world and have explored various modalities, yet still feel like something is missing or not fully aligned.

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